This morning, I sat down with a bowl of cantaloupe and blackberries–one of my favorite breakfasts once berries come back in season–and it tasted… odd. The blackberries were good, but the melon was not. It hadn’t gone bad; it was just lacking its familiar flavor. It took me a few bites to realize that it probably wasn’t the fruit, but rather my changing tastebuds (it’s not you, it’s me). I’ve been wondering when this would start to happen with food. It’s unfortunate that it did with cantaloupe, since that’s one of the “Suggestions for Mealtime” in my radiation packet. Oh well. Another small pleasure lost.
I’ve also begun to feel fatigued from my treatments. Any time my daughter slows down enough to watch a television show, I’ll curl up next to her on the couch and be out for the count within minutes. Like, ZONKED. These naps won’t necessarily be long, but they’ll be deep. My doctors have recommended exercise to combat the fatigue, so I’ve been taking a walk every day, weather permitting. I enjoy the fresh air and time to think (which I have a lot of on my hands lately). Today, I thought about how hard it’s been for me to incorporate exercise, consistently, into my adult life. It was much easier as a kid, since I grew up playing sports. And now that I’m dealing with cancer, I’ve found myself drawing upon that aspect of my youth in unexpected ways–needing the grit and endurance athletics require you to have, I guess. Digging for something in your gut that makes you see it through, whether “it” is a grueling practice or simply walking to the end of the driveway, which was my challenge after surgery.
Having to summon this kind of fortitude again makes me regret the ways in which I’ve dismissed my body and its needs in the past, as women and working parents are, I would venture, sometimes wont to do. Now, I’m having to listen and tend to myself in ways I haven’t for a while, which is probably a good thing.
Well, then 