Consider the cucumber. We bought one at a plant sale my daughter’s school was having, and watching it grow has been fascinating. The students staffing the sale told us that cucumbers are climbing vines, and would need a trellis or cage to latch onto (if you’re an avid gardener, you already know this, but I’m a novice; I try to grow a few potted vegetables and herbs every summer, with varying degrees of success). We followed their instructions, and I was awed by the first little tendril that unfurled from the stem, delicately coiled as calligraphy. It listed far from the cage and I thought, there’s no way it will latch onto that! It seemed blind, like a worm or some deep sea creature, tonguing its way, vainly, into the air. But then, a day or so later, this tendril had somehow found the thin metal rib of the cage, and curled around it with such grace and precision that I felt oddly moved. That nature is ingenious and resourceful shouldn’t surprise me, but it did. It struck me as miraculous that this seemingly lost and fragile fledgling of a stem found what it needed in the night, even though it’s merely a rote machination of the plant–what it does, what it’s designed to do.
I’ve wondered if my body is functioning in a similar way. I wonder how much invisible work it does every night to heal and repair what has been ravaged. And I’ve wondered how it knows to do this, without any books, instruction, or bidding. I was in so much pain last week, and felt so vulnerable, that I couldn’t believe my doctors had sent me home to deal with it, alone. I don’t see my radiation oncologist again for six weeks. Six weeks! I would think to myself, enraged and incredulous that I’d been left to flounder through the hardest part of all this, unmonitored. But maybe it’s because there’s really nothing she could do for me, aside from prescribing the heavy regimen of pain meds. Maybe she knew that my body would begin to heal itself on its own, and my job now is to simply wait it out. Only it’s not so simple, because the process has been slow and strangely hidden from me. I wake each morning wondering how I will feel–whether the pain will have subsided some, or my energy returned. Whether my body, in its distress, will have found some kind of mooring.
Well, then 