Today marks three full weeks since I completed radiation. My doctors have said that recovery usually takes about six weeks, so I’m halfway there. The most marked change I’ve noticed is in my energy level. I now feel pretty much back to normal in that respect. I’ve resumed my walks, and feel comfortable being out and about. I think weaning off of my pain medications has helped me feel less fatigued and drowsy (not to mention, allowed me to drive again). Speaking at length is still difficult, which concerns me given the fact that I’m due back in the classroom in August. But hopefully, that will continue to improve, along with my enunciation.
The main side effect that remains unchanged is my diet. While the flavor of some foods is gradually returning, my ability to chew and swallow them has not. So I’m still on liquids. The same liquids. Like my surgeon and radiation oncologist predicted, I’ve lost twenty-two pounds since all this began. It’s actually becoming a concern, as an unexpected–but, oddly convenient–corollary of radiation is a loss of appetite. I don’t really feel hungry any more. Meals (and I use the term loosely) are something I make myself have; they’re not something I want. In a way, this is a bit of a blessing. It would be a torment to sit down with my family at dinner and find myself craving what they were eating, but I don’t. The challenge now is making sure I get enough calories to continue to heal and have energy given this odd indifference towards food.
And it is odd. For as long as I can remember, eating has always been associated with very strong emotions–desire, anticipation, pleasure, anxiety, satiety, belonging, frustration, disappointment, loneliness, discovery. It has never been a source of apathy. As with most things I’ve experienced since my diagnosis, this altered relationship to something so fundamental has been double-edged. On the one hand, it’s surprisingly freeing. I’m doing more with a lot less. There’s some time and psychological space that’s opened up where food used to be. I see that, perhaps, the ascetics were onto something. But I also mourn its loss, its familiarity, its rituals. Again, temporarily. I’ve been told that my appetite and ability to eat will return again at some point. I just don’t know when.
Well, then 